Are you a good listener? I suspect that most of us, at times, could do a better job of listening more and talking less. Don't you agree?
This point also applies in the divorce context -- to both divorce lawyers and clients. In other words, as a divorce lawyer, it is important that I listen carefully to my clients and make sure that I hear and understand what they are saying. But the same is true for divorce clients, too!
For example, if your divorce lawyer tells you that it would be a mistake to join the dating scene until your divorce is final, please listen!
Every relationship, including the attorney-client relationship, requires good communication. And good communication includes being a good listener. Don't you agree?!